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Reading a title I wanted to write:"congrats!" but then I read the whole post...it's hard to give you an advice...
I think the best thing is...to be honest

Been there.

I just wrote down the pros and cons for myself when I was in that situation... the one girl may look nice, but do you really know her? The one you're having a relation with, do you really love her, or do you think the two of you don't really belong together...? That kind of things you could work out for yourself. Sometimes it's good to resist

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Well "clinical" or not, you can't rely on your feelings to make your decision, so better use your common sense, hmm?

Just be sure to know what you're doing. I mean - if you "exchange" the one girl for the other and it doesn't work out between you and your new girlfriend, you end up with nothing....

And if this has been on your mind for the last decade, well... it's about time to get things straight I guess

Andy...imagine how would you feel in your girlfrien's situation...wouldn't you prefer your partner to be honest with you?

I think it's really hard to advice something knowing situation just from internet...only YOU can decide what to do. YOU know what you feel and how much importance these two girls have for you.

I imagine it isn't easy for you

Ronja is right. Hurray!

Yes, of course. You both are right, but however it's a very difficult situation... I have to make a clean sweep.

Follow your heart... that's all you can do.

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Behave yourself a bit, willya?

Andy wrote:... because I'm in love - but I have a longtime companion, too.

I know, I know: that's (at least morally) not okay, but what shall I do?

Eat a few Really Hot curries.
Guranteed to get rid of these butterflies ... at least for a while

Andy wrote:... because I'm in love - but I have a longtime companion, too.

I know, I know: that's (at least morally) not okay, but what shall I do?

It's so exciting and I feel sooo good!

Get a third one...
(you're not in love with neither)

As far as what you should do, I'd say move to another country and play dead, but if it was me, I'd try do stick both in bed and have some fun.. in my wild days, now that I've done all tricks in the book, I tend to un-prioritarize these male territorial gene spreading instincts, though still well present, they made me waste way to much time and effort.

Still, back to the menage à trois thing, women tend to separate physical from emotional better - if you can handle it. latinos like me have a hard time sharing - but since you are or seem to be in the emotional arena too, go buy the blessed tickets and run like hell... while you still can.



(of course, I'm just embeleshing the text, I don't think you or anyone should cheat. So be a Man :-p and face the consequences, so you and yours truly can be head up, not humiliated, just sad (?).)

Explaining why with reasonable arguments may also help, at least, to remain friends...

Kind Regards,
AMR
http://www.alvaromrocha.com

AMR wrote:
Get a third one...
(you're not in love with neither)

Thanks, Alvaro!

As a wise man once said; "Just because you love someone, you don't have to hate everyone else".